First off welcome! I would suggest reading all the Dev Journals, and hoping over to the guild recruitment forums. From there take a peek at the different kingdoms to see which ones share the same views you are looking for. Again welcome to the world as we know it!

Welcome to the Chronicles of Elyria.

I would recommend joining the discord of a few communities and find out where you fit!

http://elyrian.directory/

That directory will be helpful as well!