Since everyone has made it their business where I find a home, let me address the concerns one by one.
First, the lag excuse for APAC was only a political one to urge Australians and Kiwis to leave NA-W and return to their home server. I allowed that ruse, because I sincerely believe that any player wishing to play competitively, as are most people Down Under, will suffer for the communities they chose to stay with.
Two, I have not been jumping around from server to server by choice. At the time I left NA-E, there were no options of building a community there outside of Vornair, where I was deemed unworthy to hold a duchy seat since I recruit mostly gatherers and crafters. Vornair is in the habit of poaching PVP guilds which is common knowledge now, but at the time I was unaware there was such prejudice held against casual players. Being ill prepared for the expectations from those looking for a kingdom, I faltered in NA-W where I was abandoned by my people and targeted by the independent duchies of Avalon.
Three, I looked to return east, since Aranor had opened up one known slot there, but the independent duchy held by Dleatherus showed no interest in being the first member of my council . At which point, I was led to APAC after the recruitment efforts of Emery and Fizz convinced me I'd have support. Again this was a low level manipulation to have a flag and player run throne that wouldn't have the support from actual players due to the low population. I simply wasn't getting any new recruits since they were almost all in NA-W, so I was planning on at least playing with an alt in NA-E. I could then interact with real players. I reconnected to many that I had lost when I returned east and decided I'd work on getting the kingdom moved over, since again, with at that time 3 open slots, I had a space once again.
However, you can't make a move without the permission and blessing of the empire, so within a week of it being determined by them that I was playing east again there was a systematic block for me to do so, since I was still 2 paychecks away from being paid off. These being of course, the shadow kingdom of the Kinder household, Bordweall and ultimately Kairos, one of the eldest kingdoms in the game.
Four, I have decided to play in EU with the support of the former sovereign kingdom of Tryggr which has welcomed me with open arms. I only did this with assurance that Ereshkigal didn't want to rule a kingdom. We have all been in council with each other and he knows he's welcome to join us for a very new and exciting chapter of the dramas and intrigue of the European server.
Any further questions of this should be directed to myself, and not the thread of a frustrated new member of our community. This mud slinging can stop now. I'll be monitoring this thread and will report any further detours of its purpose and concerns as destructive and legitimately toxic to the ability of the developers to effectively project a healthy play environment to new and prospective members of this community.
P.S. My ping in Europe is around 160, which I believe to be acceptable for someone who is a king,