Posted By Rathner at 10:00 AM - Wed Jun 07 2017
I recommend taking a look at The Kingdom of Vornair. A large majority of the high teired backers in the Kingdom understand that the game is in development and have avoided making any huge promises.
Vornair, As a whole, Shares many of the same concerns. I suggest taking a look at the announcements in Vornairs discord to get a better understanding of our mentalities.
From my experience in Vornair, It appeals to a large majority of different playstyles. Although, It could just be my bias. :)
Tbh, Vornair is on the NA-E server, and these forums are for the EU server, so as a new player looking for a home, i'd avoid that advise because if you want any random server, you wouldn't have posted your thread here :D
The main thing to ask yourself about finding a group to play with is....
"does what I want to do require something specific"
If that "specific" thing is a tribe, biome or environmental feature, then you'd be right to wait. Maybe look for a kingdom to join instead of a group because kingdoms cover a wide area (i'd recommend Nirath) and will have multiple biomes, tribes and everything else, you can then get to know people and know if the place is right for you.
If what you want to do doesn't require specifics, then find a group that does that "thing" that you want to do. You don't have to start in the same area as them, you can pick based on appearance still and travel to their location. For example, one thing I plan to have in my county is an Arena that develops into a large Stadium, that is something that doesn't depend on geological features or tribes and could easily be build next to farm land or next to a mining community.
Also, if you make joining a kingdom your first priority, it'll help you to narrow down your choices later on :D