All I can really say is that I am a sparkly homoseckshul with very long hair, a love of vogue, and a regular weightlifter with six pack abs and a nice chest. I am a special snowflake with uniqueness just like everyone else in this wonderful community is.
I felt everyone in this thread needed to know this. But if I must have a point it would be to say I love deconstructing gender and taking bits and pieces that I like from both. Doing "boy things" and "girl things" and turning them into "David things".
I think it would be so cool to not have restrictions based on gender in the game regarding hairstyles, clothing, and what you can do in society. Maybe that doesn't fit in with your vision for this game. I don't know, but for the types of experiences I enjoy having it would be a great thing for me and those who are like me. So I just wanted to put the thought out there.. in the world.
Lets get some drag queens out into these tavernses! But it's really whatever you guys wanna do. It is your game.