Welcome to COE mate!!!!
if nothing else you made a good call joining this game. now as you said the hard part finding out where you want to live. which seems like a simple question at first but with COE being new in so many ways the normal considerations for picking a starting location become even more inportant.
so you started at the good spot of chooseing a server. i can say with some authority here that NA-W is so far the only server in the game that has been setup the way the game was orginaly designed to be with 6 single kingdoms all on somewhat equal footings.
so personal if i was in your boots able to choose between the 2 i would still go NA-W as it would be the most likly to be what the devs wanted me to exprence.
like others said the NA-E server will have so many players that i feel they will have the more problams that come with that. (server over pop, rampant murder & greifing and alot more that comes with larger numbers of people) where NA-W will i think be more in the goldilocks zone not too many yet not to few.
i also find that the people on NA-W tend to be a little more down to earth types thats not to say i know every one on NA-W but the repsentation of people from NA-W i have met have been good.
so once you solve your server selection choice you suddenly come to the next one which u are now checking into what kindom do i want to live in...
this is a inportant one as each of the kingdoms in NA-W are quite diffrent. i would go into details about the kingdom but i feel there kingdom posts in the domains forum for this server forum speak better then i could.
and realy i only know alot about blackheart and Ashalands as those were the ones i interviewed when i made my choice.
but it dose not end there. because u then need to work out where in the kingdom you will live. are you gonna be in the capital or maybe you will be in one of the outlying duchies and or counties.
based on ur comments i dont see u wanting to join a boarder garrison baronry hehehee.
another thing to consider is tribes. some tribes kingdoms will have some very qurky traits that will effect your game play even if you dont play that tribe (ie in kypiq kingdom and ur a naren choping down a tree... your people the narens have no issues with treep chopping but kypiq choping a tree down is almost equal to treason... it is the highest taboo.
sadly none can tell u what tribe they will be till domain selection.
that being said it is better to be with a group you can be around and take the hit on what tribe they get stuck with then to go looking for a tribe and be stuck with people u realy dont want to play with.
also if ur intrested in possably runing a School hit me up i still have yet to have any one apply to my head masters position. click on the link if ur intrested.
any way i do hope you can join us over on NA-W and one again welcome to COE and the ride of your life