I'm sure every community on the server would be happy to have you join them. With what you're planning to, do you'll be an asset to any settlement.
My suggestion would be to join the Oceanus discord and get to know the "regulars", CoE - APAC is a good place to start, you'll get a bunch of invites from there to oth r related discord channels.
Once domain selection happens it'll give you a better idea of what kingdom to join depending on your favoured tribe.
We have plenty of time for you to find the best fit by getting to know everyone.
Good luck with your search!