Welcome Tandel! Great to see you pop back! There are a lot of things going on, but it's always a good start to get acquainted with the server.
Here is a list of the different kingdoms and duchies, have a look and pop in on one of the servers to say hi!
https://chroniclesofelyria.com/forum/topic/22216/nae-kingdomduchy-information-welcome
If you have any question, feel free to ask!