Posted By American Duchess at 07:04 AM - Sun Oct 27 2019
Seem's to be 50/50 more or less, You have those who see the perks of recruiting family, and those who see the threat of it. Atleast from what I'm seeing and hearing... Even just being involved is incentive enough for me, but I can't expect everyone to be so forthcoming and invite me in hands down, I'd be cautious too if I was a duke or count.
Bah, don't let the paranoid people get you down.
If you want to be a family member of someone with a title then advertise yourself as such while you get to know various communities in CoE.
There are so many duchies and counties and kingdoms it's crazy, and you are bound to get along with one of them. Once you find one that you like then be active in that community and build up trust with the title holders.
There is still enough time before launch that if you are earnest and active then you can get people to understand your good intentions.